Upgrade to tcMenu 4.1 or later broken

[futurexdesign]

Cannot upgrade to tcMenu greater than 4.0, as menuManager->activateMenuItem has been removed from the library.

Will need to explore a workaround for this, as we use this method for locking the current menu item when a cycle is running, and to keep the cursor from escaping the menu bar.

This also causes issues with builds in current main, as the dependency auto upgrades to 4.1 (not locked to 4.0 in the platformio.ini file currently.. will fix..)

@bonzer35 If you are up for an exploratory battle, take a swing at it :D

[futurexdesign]

Temp work around to get main to build..

platformio.ini line 18, change davetcc/tcMenu@^4.0.0 to davetcc/[email protected], this locks the dependency to 4.0.0, which will build. Without this, platformio will pull 4.1.1, which has the breaking change.