Add checks on multi-TimePeriod / FunctionEnableControl control setups to make sure objects are not controlled twice in opposing directions

[GiudGiud]

Issue

in #29541, a user had 3 TimePeriod controlling each the same 3 materials. One was tasked with turning each one on and disabling the others. Unfortunately, even though there is a better setup possible, this setup was confusing because every material ended up being active at the same time, because reverse_on_false was true

Design

Add an enable control check that looks at objects being controlled and makes sure there is no overlap, or if there is that there is a clear "winner" for the control decision (off or on)

Impact

Easier to use the Enable/Disable controls