chore: add OwnerReference to created resources

[foyerunix]

Hello,

This is basically an alternative implementation of #3575 taking into account the points raised by @nikola-jokic.

It improves upon it by:

• Setting the OwnerReference on all resources created in https://github.com/actions/actions-runner-controller/blob/master/controllers/actions.github.com/resourcebuilder.go
• Avoiding to hardcode APIVersion and Kind

Please note that I had to move the namespace where we create the autoscalinglisteners from the namespace where we run the controller to the namespace where we run the runners. Without this change, the autoscalinglisteners cannot be owned by their respective AutoscalingRunnerSet. If this is incorrect, please advise on the alternative approach so I can rework my PR accordingly.

It is running in my environment with no issues so far.

Best Regards.