[pre-commit] Only run pyright in pre-push (#22525)

Internal companion PR: dagster-io/internal#10219

## Summary & Motivation

Currently pre-commit will run all of our defined hooks pre-push. There
is no point re-running hooks that also run pre-commit. This PR makes it
so that only the pyright hook runs pre-push.

## How I Tested These Changes

Pushed and observed executed hooks

.pre-commit-config.yaml

@@ -1,3 +1,4 @@
+default_stages: [pre-commit] # don't run on push by default
 repos:
 - repo: https://github.com/charliermarsh/ruff-pre-commit
   rev: v0.4.5