[DA] Fix issue with run_in_progress calculation (#25811)

## Summary & Motivation

See changelog

## How I Tested These Changes

## Changelog

Fixed issue with `AutomationCondition.run_in_progress` that would cause
it to ignore queued runs.

python_modules/dagster/dagster/_utils/caching_instance_queryer.py

@@ -193,7 +193,12 @@ def get_in_progress_asset_subset(
                 value = False
             else:
                 dagster_run = self.instance.get_run_by_id(planned_materialization_info.run_id)
-                value = dagster_run is not None and dagster_run.status in IN_PROGRESS_RUN_STATUSES
+                value = dagster_run is not None and dagster_run.status in [
+                    *IN_PROGRESS_RUN_STATUSES,
+                    # an asset is considered to be "in progress" if there is planned work for it that has not
+                    # yet completed, which is not identical to the "in progress" status of the run
+                    DagsterRunStatus.QUEUED,
+                ]
 
         return SerializableEntitySubset(key=asset_key, value=value)