chore!(deps): upgrade frisbii and necessary dependencies

[rvagg]

Fixes HEAD request for trustless HTTP, including probe requests from IPFS gateway

[rvagg]

FYI I haven't figured out this breakage (yet), but I know the following:

• It's causing EOF on reading certain blocks from the blockstore which propagates up to retrievals, that's the main failure
• It's not because we upgraded to 1.24 (I think), the main branch also fails when running on 1.24
• It's not frisbii, I can downgrade that all the way back and it still fails, plus this is in the blockstore so it's deeper than that
• go-car/v2 seems like an obvious candidate, but it's only dependencies and Go version that changed between the two versions
• It's not go-varint, I did update that recently with an optimisation in UvarintSize but I can downgrade it here and it still fails

My guess is that it could be related to boxo; I just don't know how. It could also be one of the block or ipld interface libraries, but I also don't know how.