benchmarks: moves dependency scope to test except wire

[codefromthecrypt]

same as openzipkin/brave#1422 except...

• some glitches result in wire (proto) being a main dep.
  • this isn't an issue for CVEs because it is updated frequently.
• a little build of build dep work to remove logger conflicts
  • most are aware of the dancing here, due to zipkin-server using two different log setups

ran server benchmarks just to make sure:

2024-04-12 13:47:32:209 [testcontainers-lifecycle-1] WARN tc.quay.io/dim/wrk:stable - The architecture 'amd64' for image 'quay.io/dim/wrk:stable' (ID sha256:11fb87b1ef9581f3a443395ab0080842170e66f195a1f63cfbc15b83822b2af6) does not match the Docker server architecture 'arm64'. This will cause the container to execute much more slowly due to emulation and may lead to timeout failures.
Benchmark started.
Container ghcr.io/openzipkin/java:21.0.2_p13 ports exposed at {9411=http://192.168.106.2:32932}
Container ghcr.io/openzipkin/zipkin-elasticsearch7:3.1.1 ports exposed at {9200=http://192.168.106.2:32927}
Container ghcr.io/openzipkin/brave-example:armeria ports exposed at {9000=http://192.168.106.2:32928}
Container ghcr.io/openzipkin/brave-example:armeria ports exposed at {8081=http://192.168.106.2:32931}
Container quay.io/prometheus/prometheus:v2.48.0 ports exposed at {9090=http://192.168.106.2:32930}
Container quay.io/giantswarm/grafana:7.5.4 ports exposed at {3000=http://192.168.106.2:32929}
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[codefromthecrypt]

trivy repo . --scanners vuln doesn't show benchmarks in it

[codefromthecrypt]

lint is broken due to this: #3757