GH-3186: Filter out successful commits from retry

Closes #3186

* Don't retry failed commits due to rebalance if they are subsequently superseded by successful commits
* Modify rebalance test cases to capture the scenario that triggers the bug

spring-kafka/src/main/java/org/springframework/kafka/listener/KafkaMessageListenerContainer.java

@@ -164,6 +164,7 @@
  * @author Wang Zhiyang
  * @author Raphael Rösch
  * @author Christian Mergenthaler
+ * @author Mikael Carlstedt
  */
 public class KafkaMessageListenerContainer<K, V> // NOSONAR line count
 		extends AbstractMessageListenerContainer<K, V> implements ConsumerPauseResumeEventPublisher {

spring-kafka/src/test/java/org/springframework/kafka/listener/KafkaMessageListenerContainerTests.java

@@ -143,6 +143,7 @@
  * @author Daniel Gentes
  * @author Soby Chacko
  * @author Wang Zhiyang
+ * @author Mikael Carlstedt
  */
 @EmbeddedKafka(topics = { KafkaMessageListenerContainerTests.topic1, KafkaMessageListenerContainerTests.topic2,
 		KafkaMessageListenerContainerTests.topic3, KafkaMessageListenerContainerTests.topic4,