Update depenedencies and linting

[Steve-Mcl]

• Updates to latest MSSQL 10.x stream
  • I have avoided switching to 11.x stream in this PR as it bumps Node requirement up to v18 minimum!
  • This is someting that will need to be discussed.
• Remove some eslint overrides to be closer to eslint:recomended
  • fix up resulting ESLINT errors

[Steve-Mcl]

@bestlong Thank you for fixing the CI runner - Tests are now passing.

This PR updates linting on files closer to eslint standard
Also, it updates the CI to run lint as part of the test.

Note I also added Node v20 into the matrix.
All this gets rid of a few npm audit high priorities.

PS: There are no functional changes to this code (it is all purely dependencies, linting and CI stuff)

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At some later time we should discuss how best to move to the MSSQL 11.x stream.
That will require Node v18 as minimum but that will break many legacy Node-RED installations (like where Node-RED is built into a hardware device with older, non maintained Firmware).
I realise this is not "our" problem but we should be mindful and not break things for folk who have no choice (if we can avoid it).

[Steve-Mcl]

NOTE: Once merged, I will be doing some more PRs (wanted to get code up to good standard first)

So please do not do a release just yet - I will make a release PR at a later time.

[bestlong]

Hi @Steve-Mcl

No problem, the part that I think must be dealt with has been completed, and it’s up to you to do the rest.

[Steve-Mcl]

@bestlong ok, thanks.

If you could review and approve when you get time that would be great.

[bestlong]

LGTM.