v3: Migrate react-table to tanstack-table

[FlyersPh9]

react-table v7 is no longer maintained and is replaced by tanstack-table v8: https://tanstack.com/table/v8

This will be a big rewrite of our current Table and we need to try to maintain as much of the current feature set as possible.

There are also new features we should consider adding later, such as "smart" column resizing based on browser window size.

Possible considerations:

• https://github.com/iTwin/iTwinUI-migration-tool/pull/82#pullrequestreview-1742550412
• fix Table columnOrder resetting incorrectly #1901 (comment)
• Table paginator should probably not be a child of the table. This is because role=table should only consist of rows, column headers, cells, etc.. Need screen-reader testing to verify if this is indeed an issue.
• Consider improving built-in column manager (Column manager aka Configure grid #783 (comment))